Tell a Friend

Our double opt-in and single click opt-out system ensures our Tell a Friend participants and business affiliates pass on watertight control of the emails they receive and future subscribstions. Our rewarding affiliate program is simple to understand because like most other programs, primarily it is based on the principle of recommendation. We believe one solid recommendation is better than a thousand cold customers. However, if you do find our site whilst you are looking for affiliate programs or indeed our executive dating services, then we can easily provide you with some recent and verifiable testimonials.

Our Tell a Friend system is as simple as it gets. Type your friends email and click send. This system offers no incentive to the referrer or referree, other than the benefits provided by our unique and genuine dating services. However, our Earn by Referral system (click the link in the centre of the picture above for full details) is open to business people and individuals. We can show you how to set up lead capture pages and the like to increase your prospects over and above merely telling your friends. It has taken years to develop, but currently we have in excess of 1000 lead capture pages set up so we know what works and what doesn't.

More recently we have partnered with Shareasale who are specialists in paying commission to businesses who are able to advertise and generate prospects and customers. In addition to lead capture pages, our business affiliates use wide ranging initiatives including banner advertising to generate subscribers, prospects and sales. If you have a website then you can become an affiliate for free, and not only earn commissions from us, if you are able to successfully refer to friends or effectively advertise using our banners etc.

Meet Ladies Guaranteed

If you are interested, or you know someone else who may be interested in meeting ladies guaranteed, of course legal stuff applies. Before registering on our dating website our Terms and Conditions must be accepted, and it is the participants responsibility to check for any updates prior to each and every purchase. The crux of the principle of meeting ladies guaranteed is quite simple. You have to choose more ladies if you do not get enough responses to meet the number of ladies that you desire to meet. Most of the ladies you write to on our site will not be communicating with other men, however some will be using other sites, so do not presume that all ladies have no other options or offers. As with any service, if you do your homework, you have a better chance of success. I know my explanations are a bit long winded, however I hope you were able to extract some helpful tips amidst my explanation of some of the misconceptions about what can only be described in my factual opinion as the dating opportunity of a lifetime.

Misconceptions

Why are their so many misconceptions? "It's the media's fault!" Well, that's one opinion, but that may also be a stereotypical remark. It is true that the media are not normally interested in many stories that do not have the ability to make you squirm. Indeed, that is what sells newspapers or gets the viewing statistics soaring. Real life is often not quite so controversial as some would like us to believe, but that does not mean you should leap forth like a bull in a china shop. Aside from the task of filtering out the many misconceptions, the ultimate benchmark when choosing a dating service, is security. Yes security. How boring does that sound? But it could save you a fortune, not to mention saving time and energy. Do the security checks that we recommend on our site, and you will be ten steps ahead of the game before you start. If you don't do the checks, then you may embark on a very costly mission impossible. Good luck with that one. There are many biasses, prejudices and misconceptions floating around so I would ask you simply to use common sense. Ultimately it comes down to education and we are often fed the wrong information, and we have to use our skills to determine the truth. I am sure many of my clients are satisfied that they are now, "in the know", and can confidently pursue what they want to achieve.

Opportunities Missed

This service is not only the opportunity of a life time, it is sometimes the missed opportunity of a lifetime also. There is nothing pleasant about telling any of our members “I told you so” after they have ignored or simply forgot my advice, and they ended up missing out on golden opportunities. I am committed to providing my best guidance with the aim of giving clients the highest probability of quicker success. The clients that I speak to on the phone only know to well that I am quite vehement with my advice. They know I am straight down the line and I get a great deal of loyalty because of that. However, sometimes clients are slow to request a call back so I was thinking that I had also better put a few - probably too many - words in black and white. I would welcome any feedback.

Eggs in One Basket

Everyone has heard the phrase, don't put all your eggs in one basket. This is the ultimate mistake that most clients make when they start with our dating site, and it more often than not results in me saying, well “how many times did I advise you to meet more ladies?“ As a standard recommendation I advise members to meet 12 ladies when they are ready. In my opinion, meeting 12 ladies gives the man a reasonable chance of meeting someone they have rapport and chemistry with to take things to the next level, actual serious dating. As it turns out, the average number of meetings that members have is usually between 6 and 9. In my opinion 6 meetings is not enough and it obviously reduces the chances of success immediately by 50%. Meeting 12 ladies on a 4 day trip is a bit of a squeeze, but over 7 days it is easily achievable. Those first meetings make any continued correspondence much easier because hopefully, that initial curiosity has already turned in to a strong desire to meet again. Of course a second meeting is a certainty for individuals who actually like one another.

So, for any guys thinking of meeting just one lady, then do on the basis that you know before you start, that you have a 90% less chance of success, than if you had met 10 ladies. Also, ignore this advise 10 times, and it will also cost you l0 times more to achieve the same result as it would have taken in one trip.

This advice is based on actual experience. My own personal experiences, and observing many members go with their instincts rather than common sense. It is just life. I don't know what it is, maybe we all jump to the wrong conclusions based on what we dream could happen. You should follow your instincts after having ten meetings, not before having one!

The first meetings should be to find out if you feel comfortable with the lady, and that she also feels comfortable with you. If it is going well, then you will both be buzzing. It could be over coffee or lunch. When you look back, it is just as possible that the lady you thought would be the one, is the one that you disliked the most, that is why you must not commit to spend too much time too soon. To commit to spend a full day, or even a few days with a woman that you have never had coffee with is simply a mistake - usually a big mistake - which wastes time and effort and results in missed opportunities. OK you may be very lucky by doing it your way, but I can assure you that 9 times out of 10, or 99 times out of a 100, you will say “Steve, you was right”. This is an opportunity of a life time, but that does not mean effort is not required.

It’s not a one way decision

The lady also has to like you, it is not just about you liking her and just wanting to give her one for England - that's a bit direct but sometimes its true. A common misconception is that ladies are desperate to get out of their country due to poverty etc. Not so. They are not like economic migrants like in China or Thailand. Most women can get by, especially if they are from the main cities and working. They are used to economising and sharing what little they have. Most have close friends and family that support each other. They will not give up their best years of their life, leave their family and friends unless they believe there is a good chance of developing a loving relationship. There is simply not enough family orientated men where they live, just like there is not enough single women where we live. They want a happy family so you have to convince each other that that is at least possible, if not probable. This is the real world, not the tabloid world. There are Russian brides agencies out there who are happy for you to believe that it is simply a matter of a choosing a bride, but that is part of their scam to make you go, so you believe it is a forgone conclusion. You do have a significantly better chance if the agency is genuine, but you should not presume the relationship will click as an inevitability, that is why you should meet more ladies. Ladies understand this concept far better than men, especially in the UK because they were born with the abundance of choice. Sometimes it is true that us men just have a one track mind. We all have to think more about what we really want and expect and when we are not sure, we can simply browse around, and find some pleasant surprises in the process.